Reading your new puppy

Topic: Introductions 

In this week's dialogue, James, Alexia, and Sundance will discuss how dogs and humans first meet each other. Sundance will ask a series of relevant questions, and James and Alexia will provide answers.

Sundance: On that first day we met, I had no idea who you and Mama were. You were just a couple of humans visiting who I thought only wanted to play and pick me up, like all the others that came before you. My birth-momma was slowly separating herself from us pups, and no longer wanted to nurse us. We had started eating from a large bowl, chomping away at puppy kibble. You and Mama approached me slowly and did not overwhelm me with excitement, exuberance, and joy. Instead you allowed me to come to you, and you let me watch as you and my my birth mom played fetch.

James: I remember that day well. Your brother and sister were more  interested in me than you were. We knew we wanted a dog who maintained a calm energy and was laid back. You were exactly what we wanted! Sundance, you were not my first golden retriever, so I knew what we were getting into and how to approach the situation. Your Mama and I were committed to being informed about your needs, and understanding the type of energy you shared, and chose you based on our needs and preferences as committed owners. 

Sundance: So if I had been more like my brother and sister, you may not have wanted me? 

James: If you were more like your brother and sister, we would have watched a bit more closely and observed the kind of conversation you were sharing with them. It was important for us to see your birth-mama and look at her temperment with humans and other dogs. We wanted to see the kind of stock you came from and if there were any warning behavior signs like growling, barking, and fighting. Often, bad behaviors like this can transfer over to the puppies. But your Mama was an angel, a perfect golden retriever. 

Sundance: So, first introductions must remain calm and steady, not overbearing and dominant?

James: Most new owners are excited to get a new puppy, and then they read each other incorrectly. Your mama and I wanted to be certain the match was perfect and our union would be long lasting, with room for improvement.

Sundance: I'm so glad I'm the puppy you chose. I can't think of a better Momma and Daddy to have, or a better living situation than ours.